Battling Imposter Syndrome: You Are More Than Enough

In this episode of "Get Over Your Shit," host Malinda Watt delves into the pervasive issue of imposter syndrome among entrepreneurs. Malinda emphasizes the importance of self-affirmation, reframing success, and seeking supportive communities as tools to combat imposter syndrome and provides practical exercises and mindset shifts that promise to transform how listeners perceive their achievements.

Key Takeaways:

• Imposter syndrome is a widespread issue among entrepreneurs, rooted in psychological and social factors, but it can be managed and overcome.
• Recognize common signs of imposter syndrome, such as self-doubt, feeling undeserving of achievements, and avoiding challenges due to fear of failure.
• Utilize self-affirmation exercises to build a positive self-image and reinforce your strengths.
• Reframe your success stories to acknowledge the efforts and skills you invested in achieving them, rather than attributing them to luck.
• Build a support network for sharing experiences and getting feedback to strengthen your confidence and combat feelings of inadequacy.

"We can't wish imposter syndrome away, but we can actively work on changing how we think and feel about ourselves."

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Hosted by Malinda Watt
Edited by Chris @ Wider View Studios
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Transcript

0:00:00 - (Malinda Watt): Welcome back to get over your shit, the podcast dedicated to helping digital course creators, entrepreneurs, and small business owners stop overthinking and start executing. I'm Melinda Watt, your host and fellow overthinker, here to guide you through the maze of self-doubt and procrastination that keep us stuck today; we're tackling something that almost every entrepreneur struggles with at some point: imposter syndrome. That nagging feeling that you're not good enough, or that somehow, despite your successes, you're a fraud waiting to be exposed.

0:00:31 - (Malinda Watt): Does that sound familiar? You're not alone. In fact, imposter syndrome is incredibly common among entrepreneurs, and yet it can hold back both personal and business growth in a really big way. So if you've ever felt like you don't belong in the room you've worked so hard to get into, today's episode is for you. Let's dive into how to recognize imposter syndrome, its roots, and most importantly, how to combat it so that you can take action with confidence.

0:01:00 - (Malinda Watt): First things first. What is imposter syndrome? Imposter syndrome is the belief that your success is the result of luck, timing, or even some kind of a fluke, and that soon enough, people will find out you're not as capable as they think. It's that little voice in your head saying, I don't deserve to be here or I'm not good enough. And for many entrepreneurs, it's a huge hurdle that shows up over and over again.

0:01:28 - (Malinda Watt): So how do you know if you're experiencing imposter syndrome? Some common signs include constantly doubting your abilities, feeling like your achievements aren't deserved, and even avoiding challenges because you're afraid of failure. These feelings can impact your decision-making, your confidence, and ultimately, your success. When imposter syndrome takes over, it can paralyze you, keeping you from moving forward, or fully owning your accomplishments.

0:01:57 - (Malinda Watt): Sound familiar? Yeah, it's a tough one. But the good news is we can work through it. So where does imposter syndrome come from? It's not like we wake up one day and decide to doubt ourselves. The roots of imposter syndrome often run deep, and understanding them is key to breaking free from its grip. There are a few common factors at play. So psychological factors, our brains, are wired to protect us from failure.

0:02:24 - (Malinda Watt): Sometimes this manifests as imposter syndrome, a defense mechanism that makes us second guess our capabilities so we don't risk failing or being judged. That one hits close to home for me. Social factors as entrepreneurs, we're constantly bombarded with images of success, social media, feeds show us only the highlight reels of other people's lives, and it's easy to feel like we don't measure up. That pressure to be perfect can trigger or worsen feelings of inadequacy and past experiences.

0:02:59 - (Malinda Watt): Let's be honest, our upbringing, past failures, or even societal pressures can fuel these feelings. Maybe you've been told at some point that you're not good enough, or perhaps you've internalized the belief that you need to achieve more to be worthy of success. These experiences add layers to the imposter syndrome that many of us face. Understanding these roots doesn't solve the issue overnight, but it gives us perspective, and that's the first step in overcoming it.

0:03:31 - (Malinda Watt): As I've shared in a previous episode, this podcast is a form of accountability for myself to keep showing up and moving forward. At the time of recording this podcast, I am still struggling to hit the publish button on the offer that you can find in the show notes onepagewebsitesuccess.com dot I think the biggest piece right now is I'm still completely afraid it won't sell, that no one will buy it. But if that's the case, my rational brain already knows my next pivot or how I can repurpose all the content into a new offer.

0:04:04 - (Malinda Watt): All is not lost here. I just need to move forward, get it done, get over my shit about it, and take the next step. Now, let's get into the actionable part. We can't wish imposter syndrome away, but we can actively work on changing how we think and feel about ourselves. I'm going to share three practical exercises that can help you start chipping away at imposter syndrome and boost your self-confidence.

0:06:13 Okay. Exercise one self-affirmation. This is all about building a positive self-image. Each day, take a few moments to affirm your strengths. Write down a few sentences like, I am capable, I have earned my success, or I am enough.

0:06:29 - (Malinda Watt): Speak them out loud to yourself. It might feel awkward at first, but affirmations help rewire your brain to focus on your strengths rather than your perceived weaknesses. Exercise two, reframing success, often imposter syndrome, makes us feel like our successes are just lucky breaks or flukes. This exercise helps you reframe your success as evidence of your competence. When you achieve something, don't dismiss it.

0:06:59 - (Malinda Watt): Reflect on the specific skills and efforts that got you there. You didn't just stumble into success; you worked for it. Acknowledging this will remind you that you truly deserve your accomplishments. And remember, those accomplishments can be big and small. Getting this podcast episode recorded and off to Chris to be edited is a huge accomplishment for me today. Even though it might seem small, the success is in having it done in a reasonable amount of time, so I'm not putting it off too close to the deadline.

0:07:32 - (Malinda Watt): Keeping with my weekly schedule commitment, I've made to grow this podcast. And when I remember to, I'll add these things to a note in my phone. Those little accomplishments, big and small. Something kind a friend or a client said to me, a milestone I've reached in my business, something I'm proud of my son for doing. Because, hey, that also means I'm doing something right in that department. The reason I add them to a note in my phone is so that I can come back to it and remind myself of these things.

0:08:02 - (Malinda Watt): The list can really add up over time, and I don't know about you, but I'm terrible at remembering these things in a moment of feeling as though I'm failing and I'm not enough. Exercise three, seeking support. This one's big imposter syndrome thrives in isolation. Share your experiences with others, whether it's a mentor, a business group, or even friends, you'll quickly realize that you're not alone. Get feedback from people you trust, because sometimes it's hard to see our strengths clearly, others can help remind you of how far you've come.

0:08:40 - (Malinda Watt): The more you practice these exercises, the more you'll start shifting your mindset from doubt to confidence. So here's the key takeaway from today. Imposter syndrome is common, but it doesn't have to define you or your success. The more you understand it, the more you can take steps to combat it. Through self-affirmation, reframing your success, and seeking support from others, you can start to change your mindset. And trust me, you are far more capable than you're giving yourself credit for.

0:09:10 - (Malinda Watt): Remember, you don't have to wait until you feel ready or perfect to take action. Your experiences, skills, and achievements have brought you this far, and they will continue to carry you forward. Embrace your worth, own your success, and always, always keep pushing past those mental blocks. Thank you for tuning into this episode of get over your shit. If you found this helpful, be sure to subscribe.

0:09:36 - (Malinda Watt): Share this episode with a fellow overthinker and leave a review until next time. Remember, progress over perfection. Keep moving forward. You've got this.